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Why the Captian Doesn’t need to be a Pickup Artist or a Seduction Guru
From the Antique Mahogany Desk of
Mr Twenty Twenty
Returning Very Soon to Wimberly Texas
NLP Live
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Attention passengers this is your Captain!
Okay. Get this.
You can use your NLP to either develop you or to destroy both you and them.
Another way to look at it: Seduction kills.
What seduction really accomplishes:
Seduction kills your belief in you. Seduction actually makes you weaker because you begin believing that you must use “skills” to connect with women.
Seduction kills all possibility for a quality relationship in your future. Even if you don’t want a relationship now, think about this, EXACTLY how will Miss Right respond when it’s revealed that you have slept with tons of chicks, because you manipulated their minds. How will she then think about you?
Next.
Seduction kills all self respect, self love, and self growth, because the focus goes out to doing something to them so they do something to you. Do pattern, get a hummer.
Seduction based thinking causes you to lose respect for women, and lose respect for yourself.
Compare that to the life of the Captain.
The Captain of the football team doesn’t have to elicit states from chicks, he develops states within himself because he focuses on success. Success breed success.
The Captain of the Airplane doesn’t have to peacock and look ridiculous to stand out in a crowd. He knows he is the Captain, he’s developed the skill to get the job done. He also gets paid for those skills. Not to mention respect. And he get’s to wear the Captain’s Uniform with pride. Whoo yah!
Are you ready to take The Captain Challenge!
The Captain of YOUR LIFE will either be an authentic Captain, or be a dweeb in a halloween disguise.
Seduction guys are dweebs. They don’t respect themselves. They don’t respect women. I don’t respect them.
I do respect people who are on the path of personal development. I respect them because they respect themselves. Do you respect you, that’s a question well worth asking.
I had a guy be honest with me the other day in a coaching session. He told me that what he learned from his Back Room NLP course, and what he was learning in coaching wasn’t nearly as “seductive” as his old seduction bullshit.
He also told me that he would gladly spend $800 again for 10 coaching sessions with me. Because the coaching turned his life around. Yes, it was a challenge for him. However his ENTIRE life has begun transforming. And he isn’t all insecure about being himself around chicks anymore.
So, it’s your turn. Will you continue to get stuck in the seduction bullshit, or shft focus on improving and developing you today?
You could become the Captain of your life, the Captain of your destiny!
It’s up to you!
Mr Twenty Twenty Mr Twenty Twenty
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Mr Twenty Twenty - "The Weird Obtuse NLP Guru". His adventure in NLP began as a Police Interrogator back in 1988. As a prison guard, taken hostage in the Camp Hill Prison Riots in 1989, diagnosed with PTSD, he immersed himself into NLP, Native Wisdom Healing - Shamanic training, and Wilderness Survival - to heal himself of the effects of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - effectively taking his life back and becoming a world known authority. His advancements in Subjective Modeling, and using NLP to "undesign" your brain and how to use NLP to...
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In the wake-up call, you’re right about Mystery. He is very emotionally unstable and has serious ego issues. Ever read “The Game” by Neil Strauss? You’ll see how seriously messed up he is.
HOWEVER,
Many pickup artists are nowhere near as messed-up as he is. For many guys who have no hope with girls, the seduction community has been like a beacon of light at the end of a very cold dark tunnel.
A lot of pickup artists do the same things as well – like having others pay to get help from them, because they know what they’re doing. Also I think that saying that all pickup artists manipulate the minds of women is stretching it just a little bit.
The unfortunate thing is that you’re mostly very very right about the whole seduction community, and I’d much rather follow your recommended path since not only is it much healthier but also far more natural and enjoyable. However I think that the seduction community and its proponents BECOME that path to self-improvement for many guys, the path that you talk about. It’s very difficult to know how to handle those male-to-female interactions for many guys without the pickup stuff. It seems impossible to just do it by yourself. And when it starts working for guys, they get hooked.
I’d love to be able to forget all the pickup stuff and just get what I want super-easy. Can it truly, really be that simple? …..
Thanks for your time and keep it up,
Nick