Here is why:

“It’s really this simple. Men have a raging internal auditory, a mind that just won’t shut up, and we must get away from it. Being men we’ve developed a very good strategy for this.”

The man strategy is simple: “Look as something – and start screwing with it. Women, cars, anything, anyone. Look and screw with.”

It’s why we love looking under the hood and getting a screw driver. It’s why we love looking under a dress and…. It’s why we breathe. We do the LOOK AND TOUCH to escape our prison of Inner Yakking.

“Women on the other hand…. They just want to be heard. And because we can’t afford to listen, ever, we are wrong. The good news is, there is a solution. And it doesn’t involve fixing anything.”

HOW DID THE NLP WORLD MISS THIS?

And why is it that I can share this with you today?

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” Junkies have the most pure form of TOWARDS motivation I have ever come across. Ever. The junkie takes action, the junkie does NOT experience hesitation like we do. The Junkie has access to Dynamic Action and Speed of Motivation…. Do you?”

The obvious part of the problem the Junkie has, is that they don’t have a healthy focus. They need to learn how to apply their ability to have such a powerful and pure TOWARDS motivation toward something useful.

But here is the key, It’s not just about “making up their minds to do good” with the motivation strategy, it’s about making TRUE IDENTITY level shifts.

Telling an addict to change the TARGET focus is useless.  They don’t process at the level of  TARGET, they process at the level of IDENTITY.

That is EXACTLY why we focus on helping people make IDENTITY LEVEL SHIFTS, in a very specific way.

MAJOR KEY:  There are a small percentage of people who naturally have “Junky Focus” who become major successes BEFORE the dark side of Junky Focus bites them on the arse.  Maybe you’ve seen them in the news.

MAJOR KEY #2:  If you learn the dynamics of this focus NOW, you can apply it decisively , unleash the energy and focus you need to succeed, and NOT turn into a junkie later.

In other words, you’ll avoid the DARK SIDE of “Junkie Motivation” forever.

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It may be a place to rest, to stop, to decide what to do differently, but it doesn’t LEAD.

“Bogged down.” “Stuck.” “Spinning my wheels.” Those are all terms that just seem to indicate LOCATION. A place to launch from perhaps.

On the other hand…

“Rising up!” “Lightening up!” “Moving on!”

There is power. We can access that power through words.

Words can LEAD, or they can get us STUCK in a location.

It all depends on how aware we choose to be with them, how open we are to movement, and how willing we are to live life to the fullest.

Your turn,

What experiences do you have around words, rising up, and excellence?

Mr2020

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“One strong positive you can learn from using questions to direct other peoples states, is to almost NEVER ask questions that bring up “bad states”.  I know one fella who ONLY asks questions that make people feel bad.  He makes lots of money, getting people to sign contracts for his biz, but his personal life TOTALLY BLOWS because of this approach.“

Weird Shit To Do With NLP #2: Make someone likable.  I’ve never seen this demonstrated or done in a training, other than trainings that I have taught.  This one too, uses the power of questions.   I developed this approach after watching a “whiney bitchy man” attempt to get rapport with 3 chicks at a bar, by whining and bitching like they were.  Obviously he didn’t become more likable, he just became another “whiney bitch”.

“If he would have understood more about Unleashing Personal Magnetism with NLP, he would have gotten a much different result.  He could have “made the girls more likable”    To make someone else (like those girls) more likeable, all you need to do is Unleash Your Personal Magnetism.”

Weird Shit To Do With NLP #3: Become enlightening, lighten up, reduce your load, eliminate stress and unleash energy – in yourself and in those around  you.  Literally, the kind of questions you ask, and WHEN AND WHERE you ask them, will either FREE you, or IMPRISON you – and those around you.

“The kind of questions you ask will either free those around you, or manipulate them like play toys.   So…. Let’s ask questions, in a much better way.“

THE POWER OF PRECISE INTERNAL QUESTIONS.

Step 1:  Presenting the key.

If you use the Meta Model or Milton Model like most people teach it, you will ask questions that make you sound like a lunatic, piss off your friends, and alienate people you want to get to know.  So if you are into NLP, learn the Meta Model and The Milton Models themselves, learn WHY they work, and then abandon all obvious use of them.

Step 2:  Here is how to turn the key in the lock.

Don’t lead people.  Don’t use questions to lead them, force them, or direct them to a destination of YOUR choice.  In other words, don’t decide you want HER to like or agree with you, and THEN use questions to make that happen.   People actually do feel when they are being led, manipulated, forced or directed by another person.  You may win the battle, and get your way, but you will never know what naturally could have happened if….   So NEVER lead people with language.  Here is what to do instead.  Open the door.

Step 3:  Click!  Here is how to open the door.

Set a direction for your life.  Simply choose three STATES that YOU PERSONALLY choose to live in – moment to moment.  Dedicate yourself and your life to THIS STATE.  If your chosen states are NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE, you will unleash your personal magnetism – and you won’t have to do anything to anyone EVER AGAIN.

“My Chosen States are “joy”, “love”, “peace”.   What I like about those three Chosen States, is that they have an invitational feel to them.   I simply invite you to them, by being them.”

Those who want more of those states, will be naturally attracted to me.  Those who want, “chaos, control, fear” will tend to leave me and leave me alone.

To become my Chosen States, all I have to do use a simple question INTERNALLY and notice, “Is my behavior inviting me AND those around me to experience more “joy”, “love”, and “peace”.

“If my behavior is inviting me AND those around me to experience more of these states, I continue what I am doing.  If NOT, then I IMMEDIATELY STOP what I have been doing – and then move on to the POWER POINT.”

Power Point:  I STOP.  I wait – and I notice – what naturally shows up next in my behavior and in the world – to invite me and those around me back to more “love, joy and peace”.

This NATURAL approach to Unleashing Personal Magnetism is so much more fun, and natural, and freeing, and postive than forcing my way on to other people.

Having to ask THEM questions, to put them into states like desire and passion and wantingness, and then using language to attach those states to me, it just feels yucky and it’s un-natural to do.

Print out this article, and put it to use.  And if you honestly like my approach to life, nlp and stuff, head over to Inner Circle Products and pick up a product or some Almost Free NLP Training stuff.

You will be glad you did!

Mr Twenty Twenty

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NLP Calibration – It’s not the most “sexy” skill, maybe that’s why most trainers just don’t even teach it all that well.

Just ask yourself one question:

“What is the result I am getting – with this communication?”

Really, that’s all you should be doing, unless you are with a trainer.  Just noticing the results you are getting – and not being in fantasy land THINKING they are responding to your every word – suggestion – implant.

“Noticing – not THINKING is the key to taking your nlp calibration skills to the next level, and beyond.”

How do you tell if a NLP trainer is teaching you well when it comes to NLP calibration?

Simple.  A good trainer will keep reminding you to NOTICE what is going on, how the “client” is responding to their suggestions and work.   They will point out details that you are probably missing, and give you plenty of time to notice on your own.

That’s it!  No big mystery when it comes to NLP, calibration, and taking your skills to the red line!

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Whoo Yah!

Mr Twenty Twenty

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James started connecting naturally.

James started connecting easily.

James started connecting enjoyably.

8 weeks earlier, James emailed me.  He was pissed.  He was angry.  He felt all alone, that he had been gyped, he felt that nobody on earth understood him.

Except for me.

He had been reading articles here, on NLP LIVE for a few weeks.  The night he emailed me he had been reading for over an hour.    It was then, that it hit him.

“I don’t need more techniques methods or secrets, what I need is someone like you to, just do what you do.  I’ve heard you on your radio show, I’ve listened to your recordings, I’ve heard how you so naturally connect with people.  I need you to connect with me and help me get what I’ve been missing.  Would you please help me?  I need to connect with people, and I don’t want to keep trying to use rapport methods.”

So we did a total of 10 weeks of coaching.  Helping him “do what I do”.

Our calls were fun, challenging, and very unique.  They were NOT about rapport techniques or rapport methods.

We did 10 weeks of rapport coaching, helping him notice when he did just 2 things.

1. Notice when he was losing peoples interest and attention.
2. Notice when he left them behind, and went into his own little trance world.

I trained him how to NOTICE and USE ATTENTION, because:

All people want is attention – from you.

If you don’t know how to NOTICE BOTH your attention and their attention, then you are probably one of those people who are frustrated, and wondering why you still can’t connect with people.

Let me know if this makes sense, and if you want in.

Email:  2020@exhostage.com

James, I thank you for asking me to do this kind of work with you.  I thank you for having the guts to reach out, to keep showing up for our calls, and for investing in you.

Let me know if this becomes shockingly familiar. Little Jimmy goes to school. Maybe just like you did.

Jimmy gets taught that it is important to know the right answer in school. The teacher rewards him when he spits out the right answer in a sentence and while he remains in his seat. Buckle up, this is gonna rock your world, from the inside out.

“Then we wonder why when Jimmy turns 16, or maybe 46, he knows the right thing to do, and he can TELL you (the figurative teacher) the right thing he should do, but he can’t get his arse off the couch and do it.” We call this, STUCK IN YOUR SEAT SYNDROME.

“Kids and adults learn abstractly. When we think we are teaching them one thing, we are actually teaching them many processes that will run or ruin their lives .”

Here is another example. Read it. It will seem innocent enough, until you combine with the process above.

This conversation happened the one day while I was training at the Pawn Hut, “Jimmy, be nice, go help grandma, and I’ll give you a cookie when you are done.”

Now that seems innocent, right? We hear this EVERY DAY. (And we are surrounded by junkies, addicts, and procrastinators….)

When you teach a child to be nice and go help grandma carry in the groceries, so he can have a cookie you are training a child to be a junkie, and maybe a manipulator too.

That’s pretty strong. Read on buckwheat!

“The real reward is feeling good about helping someone he loves, grandma. The cookie is the bonus.”

Feel good about DOING good things, INTERNAL CHOICE AND POWER.

Compare that to doing it for the Cookie. External BONUS.

Check this out….

Back when I was a child we just helped our elders. And it felt good to help. And sometimes you were given a surprise cookie. We were never told to do this so you’ll get the cookie.

It’s like teaching the child, “BE NICE so you get paid. Or laid. Or….. “

“No wonder kids, adults, seduction junkies, and drug users can’t be happy in the present moment, there is always a desired cookie, something sweet OUT THERE, in the future that they want.”

“I know, addiction is supposed to be a disease with no known cause and cure, yea, right. And procrastination is just “being lazy”. IF that was true, why do my clients start kicking real life ass when we get them out of those strategies and help them develop NEW ONES?

Now watch the patterning here, and learn from it.

“Every addict and every procrastinator I know knows the right answer, what to do to stop, what they need to do. Just like back in school, they can tell you the answer, but their ass remains in the seat… until…. they want a cookie bad enough – until they want to get high. Then they will do anything, even be incredibly nice to grandma, in other words LIE, CHEAT OR STEAL to get that cookie.”

Until you desire to change your life with EVERY SINGLE FIBER of your BEING, you won’t. You have to generate the desire to change your life, to better your world from within. Screw the cookie. Take action. Leaders lead, sheep follow. It’s time.

Mr Twenty Twenty The Ex Hostage – Professional Visionary – Weird Obtuse NLP Guru

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PPS: Movement changes BODY CHEMISTRY. A change in chemistry, changes your thinking, it opens the DOOR for new thinking habits and strategies TO GROW. If you just READ THIS ARTICLE, you will process it a tiny bit. If you MOVE, stretch, breathe deep, it will show up much more powerfully in your life.

I am sorry to have to tell you this, but they trained you in in grade school to be a loser.   And if you want MORE in life, you’ve got to take responsibility and literally reprogram your own mind.

HOW trained you to be slow as sound, instead of fast as light.

In school they TAUGHT you to be AUDITORY – SOUND BASED during your most formative years.   They rewarded you if you SAID the right answer, to the THE QUESTION the teacher asked.  All you had to do was that, then shut up, stay in your chair, and not make waves.

THE SPEED OF LIGHT!

Many kids were actually punished if they THOUGHT OUTSIDE the box.  If they SAW OPPORTUNITY AND SOLUTIONS that the textbook didn’t have!

So…. you have to retrain your brain.   Get beyond waiting for a question and saying an answer, that’s worker bee thinking.   Train yourself to THINK like leaders / visionaries do.

This is why we are one of the FEW trainers who actively do and teach MODELING in every training and in every coaching call.

What can you do today to get free – to retrain your mind, to get out of the mind trap they built into you in school?

1.  Read.  Read anything good written by visionaries. They think differently, they notice the world differently than most people.  Get familar with their world.  (Note:  Most adults HATE READING.  Do you think they DID THAT to you too?)

2.  Watch.  Watch people.   Notice what you notice, attempt to notice even more. I was trained by old Apache Scouts and NLP experts, I see more in a glance than most people do all day.   Go watch couples.   Get fast enough to see what she is trying to communicate to him, and what he misses every single time.  No wonder why women are so angry at men.  (Have you missed that, or noticed it?)  This is why Homer and Hank are BIG BUCKS.

3.   Stop answering questions – with answers.  START seeing real world PROBLEMS and making connections – that form solutions. (This is how wealth is generated, and society advances.)

4.  Do some training.   Learn something, anything, from a passionate, capable  expert.   Learn how they see the world MORE VISUALLY  than the stuck up professor, from the amateur, from the fan.

And email me.   2020@exhostage.com  Reach out and touch someone.  Why not?

“About 3 percent of the population will retire comfortably.   Statistically, about 3 percent of the people who read this will email me with a question, comment, or just to say hello.  Coincidence?”

It’s enough to make you think.    Unless you are too dumbed down by the school system.  Wake up!  It’s time to Rock and Roll!

Mr Twenty Twenty

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Milton was a funny chap, saying to people things that could mean whatever they tended to make of them. And he was probably the best paid fake psychic ever too.

Let’s check out – the Milton Model, where we explore being artfully vague. Milton was brilliant, and his works shined above those of many others, because of his ability to let his clients fill in the blanks.

HINT: They ALWAYS KNOW how to fix themselves.   Unconsciously. So you don’t COMMAND them to change, or tell them HOW to change.  That’s how perpetual beginners work.  Experts invite them to FILL IN the blanks. Think Milton. Think ETHICAL fake psychic.

When Uncle Milton would tell you about a man in your life, or that there is someone in your life that is masculine, you fill in the blanks.

Milton wouldn’t talk directly about a husband, father or son, or the issues at hand. Milton could say, “There is a man in your life, or a masculine energy that we can notice. And this is something to notice or learn from either consciously or unconsciously.”

Who couldn’t help but agree with this, especially if you are already in a healing / hypnotic state?

Milton and the Fake Psychics gave us a great way to build yes sets, and get the client moving toward a goal or get the target realized.

Notice that EVEN THAT sentence, like this one could mean a couple of things. Several people reading could easily interpret this in many different way.

Add in pauses and tonality, which is almost impossible to do in writing (that’s why we record courses and trainings…

And pauses tend to lend themselves to being artfully vague.

Notice what those in politics (many tics – blood sucking little creatures that scare people) notice what politicians say. They like the fake psychics (do they like the fake psychic – or are they like the fake psychics) can allow you to come to your own conclusion, while sounding like an authority.

So read, enjoy, and play with these – people.

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Mindreading 101.

You can be a fake psychic in just 3 easy steps using your NLP skills.

The Fake Psychic Crash course begins with a model similar to the classic Neuro Linguistic Programming approach, called the Milton Model.

Today we are going to demonstrate how to say “nothing” while sounding really specific and relevant.  My fake psychic and medium girlfriends often talk like this.  It’s entertaining to watch, and really fun to expose.

This is just one of 23 ways the fake psychic begins.  You can learn all of the methods in the privacy of your own home.  You can obviously use them EVERYWHERE.

Let us begin….

“There is an issue with a man.”

Sounds fair enough?  We all know men, but what if that isn’t the case, what if there is no issue with a man.

“It feels more like a masculine energy…”

Now were getting somewhere.  Still waiting though for those “yes, yes, God yes” signals from our client.  Notice how now it could be a “woman” with masculine energy.

“… That’s not being expressed….”

And if the whole masculine energy thing still hasn’t set off any great response, we just add in…

“…Completely.”

Now read it all together.  It could mean anything, anything at all.

“There is an issue with a man…. it feels more like a masculine energy… that’s not being expressed… completely…”

At any time, the entire “script” is stopped when we get a yes response, and can get the client talking.   We can also continue down the same direction, moving into clarifying the phrase “issue” or noticing that this “may be coming up” in the future.

This is JUST ONE OF SEVERAL DOZEN EXAMPLES AND METHODS – amazing methods that we share and ACTUALLY DO in the Fake Psychic Course – Originally Released by Mr Twenty Twenty, DD on November 20, 2005.

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