James started connecting naturally.

James started connecting easily.

James started connecting enjoyably.

8 weeks earlier, James emailed me.  He was pissed.  He was angry.  He felt all alone, that he had been gyped, he felt that nobody on earth understood him.

Except for me.

He had been reading articles here, on NLP LIVE for a few weeks.  The night he emailed me he had been reading for over an hour.    It was then, that it hit him.

“I don’t need more techniques methods or secrets, what I need is someone like you to, just do what you do.  I’ve heard you on your radio show, I’ve listened to your recordings, I’ve heard how you so naturally connect with people.  I need you to connect with me and help me get what I’ve been missing.  Would you please help me?  I need to connect with people, and I don’t want to keep trying to use rapport methods.”

So we did a total of 10 weeks of coaching.  Helping him “do what I do”.

Our calls were fun, challenging, and very unique.  They were NOT about rapport techniques or rapport methods.

We did 10 weeks of rapport coaching, helping him notice when he did just 2 things.

1. Notice when he was losing peoples interest and attention.
2. Notice when he left them behind, and went into his own little trance world.

I trained him how to NOTICE and USE ATTENTION, because:

All people want is attention – from you.

If you don’t know how to NOTICE BOTH your attention and their attention, then you are probably one of those people who are frustrated, and wondering why you still can’t connect with people.

Let me know if this makes sense, and if you want in.

Email:  2020@exhostage.com

James, I thank you for asking me to do this kind of work with you.  I thank you for having the guts to reach out, to keep showing up for our calls, and for investing in you.

I challenge you to STOP BUILDING RAPPORT and do what it takes to connect naturally.

POWERPOINT: Rapport building is bullshit, and if you decide to keep reading this 3 minute article, you may need to micro manage everything and everyone that many NLP experts end up with.  I have been meeting with people in this field for 20 years, I’ve seen it all.

Because if you succeed in creating artificial rapport, you’ll be tempted to keep doing it, and you will miss out on the power and the beauty of authentic natural connections.

HOW TO CONNECT NATURALLY.

Have you noticed, animals never have to work on getting rapport. Why? Because animals almost NEVER fall out of rapport.

So the solution is NOT you learning and using ARTIFICIAL AND WEIRD methods to “gain rapport”, the solution is to become more “natural”.

Why I got DEEP into NLP?

After being a prison guard taken hostage in the Camp Hill Prison Riots back in 1989, I decided to learn NLP from the few experts who weren’t manipulating women to get lucky or minds to make sales.

You see, I got into NLP to save my life, to become more NATURAL again. I had been having flashbacks and other interesting stuff happen at the time, PTSD does that to you.

Anyhoo…

THE PROVEN SOLUTION – HOW TO ACTUALLY CONNECT WITH ANYONE – ANYWHERE – ANYTIME!

1.  Become profoundly curious ABOUT THEM.   That’s what all the winners do, they GET CURIOUS about people.

2.  Learn how to ASK QUESTIONS that invite people to Open Up WITH you.

3.  Notice I didn’t say, “act interested and ask questions that OPEN THEM UP.

And IF you are one of the COOL KIDS, the AMAZING people who UNDERSTAND how important #3 is, then if you want to dial it up a level higher…

Get THE  CANDID 2009 CRASH COURSE – Just $97 bucks. – It’s not like any NLP training you’ve ever been too.  It’s deeper, it’s funner, it will rock you to your core.   The  Candid 2009 Package. 7 CD’s you can download today for just $97 Click here! These CD’s invite you to a much more natural and powerful way of noticing, of being, and of connecting. You won’t hear ANYTHING in them about RAPPORT.  You WILL discover just by listening and playing with the material a much more natural way of being. And then “rapport” won’t be a problem – and you won’t have to use techniques.

SOLUTION #2 Join us in our DHARMAVILLE discussion group.  Want an invite:  Email me:  2020@exhostage.com – That’s where the cool kids hang out.

I want to now thank you for reading. THANK YOU.

Mr. Twenty Twenty

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Are you a thinker, or are you on fire?

Which girl do you want?

The HOT chick.   Especially if she has burning desire.

I’m not talking just sex here, I’m talking life.

What do you want for your kids?  You want them to have a burning desire. Without it, they will become couch potatoes, get diabetes, be fat.  NEVER FULLY LIVE!

Want The Secret of How to get the hot chick and get your kids off the couch?

Generate burning desire WITHIN YOU.

Be the leader.  Take action.  Dream big and take constant tiny steps that will get you CLOSER.

Do it now!

Mr  Twenty Twenty

Mentor – Modeler

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Men with character attract women, they attract success, they attract you.

So quit trying to change things, and start discovering the depth and strength of your character.

Take the challenge!

It’s a tiny bit more challenging than making people jump through hoops, which is what most trainers are doing out there, obviously we’ve taken a different route that what they are doing.

So how do you begin? Begin with you. Notice when you want to do something manipulative, notice when you want to hide, and stop.

Stop and allow some space to exist in your life.  Allow some discomfort to pass, and allow you to show up.

The powerful presence that results from MASTERING THIS, apache scout style, will permeate your entire life.

Remember, it’s not about doing anything to THEM, it is ALL ABOUT redefining who you are, and becoming who you desire to be.

Mr Twenty Twenty – Ex Hostage – Professional Visionary – Motivational Expert and Speaker who makes it real.

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It’s this simple.

Become responsible.

The most wealthy people I have met, modeled, and trained with are those who are responsible.

“I am responsible”. Those words send chills up the spines of many people. And those very same words can make your wealthy.

Think about it.

I was working with a fella who was being rejected by women. Once he took responsibility and took action on how they perceived him his life changed, dramatically.

In sales, no matter what, if the sale doesn’t complete you are responsible.

In my internet business, you’ll love this, 27% of my overseas orders were “not approved”. These were orders from “dangerous” places like Canada and England.

So I could have just said so what, but I took responsibility for redesigning the order process at Inner Circle Products and now they flow like a breeze.

And while we worked on that I personally emailed every person who attempted to order to help them make it happen.

What will YOU make happen today?

What will you become responsible for?

Mr Twenty Twenty – The Visionary .

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You can’t be a successful professional while sitting on your ass. It may sound obvious, but it’s true. You cannot be a successful professional while sitting on your ass. You have to get out and get dirty.

You have to be willing to get out and learn what other people aren’t learning. You have to get out and let people know that you know what you know. You have to ask for the sale. You have to take massive action.

You can’t sit on your ass. You can’t make it unless you take action.

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