Here is why:

“It’s really this simple. Men have a raging internal auditory, a mind that just won’t shut up, and we must get away from it. Being men we’ve developed a very good strategy for this.”

The man strategy is simple: “Look as something – and start screwing with it. Women, cars, anything, anyone. Look and screw with.”

It’s why we love looking under the hood and getting a screw driver. It’s why we love looking under a dress and…. It’s why we breathe. We do the LOOK AND TOUCH to escape our prison of Inner Yakking.

“Women on the other hand…. They just want to be heard. And because we can’t afford to listen, ever, we are wrong. The good news is, there is a solution. And it doesn’t involve fixing anything.”

HOW DID THE NLP WORLD MISS THIS?

And why is it that I can share this with you today?

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” Junkies have the most pure form of TOWARDS motivation I have ever come across. Ever. The junkie takes action, the junkie does NOT experience hesitation like we do. The Junkie has access to Dynamic Action and Speed of Motivation…. Do you?”

The obvious part of the problem the Junkie has, is that they don’t have a healthy focus. They need to learn how to apply their ability to have such a powerful and pure TOWARDS motivation toward something useful.

But here is the key, It’s not just about “making up their minds to do good” with the motivation strategy, it’s about making TRUE IDENTITY level shifts.

Telling an addict to change the TARGET focus is useless.  They don’t process at the level of  TARGET, they process at the level of IDENTITY.

That is EXACTLY why we focus on helping people make IDENTITY LEVEL SHIFTS, in a very specific way.

MAJOR KEY:  There are a small percentage of people who naturally have “Junky Focus” who become major successes BEFORE the dark side of Junky Focus bites them on the arse.  Maybe you’ve seen them in the news.

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It may be a place to rest, to stop, to decide what to do differently, but it doesn’t LEAD.

“Bogged down.” “Stuck.” “Spinning my wheels.” Those are all terms that just seem to indicate LOCATION. A place to launch from perhaps.

On the other hand…

“Rising up!” “Lightening up!” “Moving on!”

There is power. We can access that power through words.

Words can LEAD, or they can get us STUCK in a location.

It all depends on how aware we choose to be with them, how open we are to movement, and how willing we are to live life to the fullest.

Your turn,

What experiences do you have around words, rising up, and excellence?

Mr2020

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“One strong positive you can learn from using questions to direct other peoples states, is to almost NEVER ask questions that bring up “bad states”.  I know one fella who ONLY asks questions that make people feel bad.  He makes lots of money, getting people to sign contracts for his biz, but his personal life TOTALLY BLOWS because of this approach.“

Weird Shit To Do With NLP #2: Make someone likable.  I’ve never seen this demonstrated or done in a training, other than trainings that I have taught.  This one too, uses the power of questions.   I developed this approach after watching a “whiney bitchy man” attempt to get rapport with 3 chicks at a bar, by whining and bitching like they were.  Obviously he didn’t become more likable, he just became another “whiney bitch”.

“If he would have understood more about Unleashing Personal Magnetism with NLP, he would have gotten a much different result.  He could have “made the girls more likable”    To make someone else (like those girls) more likeable, all you need to do is Unleash Your Personal Magnetism.”

Weird Shit To Do With NLP #3: Become enlightening, lighten up, reduce your load, eliminate stress and unleash energy – in yourself and in those around  you.  Literally, the kind of questions you ask, and WHEN AND WHERE you ask them, will either FREE you, or IMPRISON you – and those around you.

“The kind of questions you ask will either free those around you, or manipulate them like play toys.   So…. Let’s ask questions, in a much better way.“

THE POWER OF PRECISE INTERNAL QUESTIONS.

Step 1:  Presenting the key.

If you use the Meta Model or Milton Model like most people teach it, you will ask questions that make you sound like a lunatic, piss off your friends, and alienate people you want to get to know.  So if you are into NLP, learn the Meta Model and The Milton Models themselves, learn WHY they work, and then abandon all obvious use of them.

Step 2:  Here is how to turn the key in the lock.

Don’t lead people.  Don’t use questions to lead them, force them, or direct them to a destination of YOUR choice.  In other words, don’t decide you want HER to like or agree with you, and THEN use questions to make that happen.   People actually do feel when they are being led, manipulated, forced or directed by another person.  You may win the battle, and get your way, but you will never know what naturally could have happened if….   So NEVER lead people with language.  Here is what to do instead.  Open the door.

Step 3:  Click!  Here is how to open the door.

Set a direction for your life.  Simply choose three STATES that YOU PERSONALLY choose to live in – moment to moment.  Dedicate yourself and your life to THIS STATE.  If your chosen states are NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE, you will unleash your personal magnetism – and you won’t have to do anything to anyone EVER AGAIN.

“My Chosen States are “joy”, “love”, “peace”.   What I like about those three Chosen States, is that they have an invitational feel to them.   I simply invite you to them, by being them.”

Those who want more of those states, will be naturally attracted to me.  Those who want, “chaos, control, fear” will tend to leave me and leave me alone.

To become my Chosen States, all I have to do use a simple question INTERNALLY and notice, “Is my behavior inviting me AND those around me to experience more “joy”, “love”, and “peace”.

“If my behavior is inviting me AND those around me to experience more of these states, I continue what I am doing.  If NOT, then I IMMEDIATELY STOP what I have been doing – and then move on to the POWER POINT.”

Power Point:  I STOP.  I wait – and I notice – what naturally shows up next in my behavior and in the world – to invite me and those around me back to more “love, joy and peace”.

This NATURAL approach to Unleashing Personal Magnetism is so much more fun, and natural, and freeing, and postive than forcing my way on to other people.

Having to ask THEM questions, to put them into states like desire and passion and wantingness, and then using language to attach those states to me, it just feels yucky and it’s un-natural to do.

Print out this article, and put it to use.  And if you honestly like my approach to life, nlp and stuff, head over to Inner Circle Products and pick up a product or some Almost Free NLP Training stuff.

You will be glad you did!

Mr Twenty Twenty

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Mr Twenty Twenty

PS:  What can I make your custom NLP recording about?  Well, just about anything. I tend to tell simple stories, and look at peoples lives in ways that help them make the shifts they need.  I’ve made recordings to help people have more peace of mind, increase sales, get closer to people, let go of trauma, accept loss and so many more things.

Some recordings I have made are step by step, others are more conceptual like The Cosmic Trigger.

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Thank you for reading and doing what you do.

NLP Calibration – It’s not the most “sexy” skill, maybe that’s why most trainers just don’t even teach it all that well.

Just ask yourself one question:

“What is the result I am getting – with this communication?”

Really, that’s all you should be doing, unless you are with a trainer.  Just noticing the results you are getting – and not being in fantasy land THINKING they are responding to your every word – suggestion – implant.

“Noticing – not THINKING is the key to taking your nlp calibration skills to the next level, and beyond.”

How do you tell if a NLP trainer is teaching you well when it comes to NLP calibration?

Simple.  A good trainer will keep reminding you to NOTICE what is going on, how the “client” is responding to their suggestions and work.   They will point out details that you are probably missing, and give you plenty of time to notice on your own.

That’s it!  No big mystery when it comes to NLP, calibration, and taking your skills to the red line!

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Mr Twenty Twenty

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Because ANYTHING ELSE, pales by comparison.

FLOW!  You know it when you’ve got it!   Performance becomes effortless, excellence and EASE are felt, seen and literally lived through you.

When you are in the ZONE – One runner I know says he feels like he is running on air, being carried by angels.   Back when I used to fight full contact, I knew when I was in the zone, because all my moves were perfect, and my opponents just seemed to fall over.

Here’s the key, if you want to be in THE ZONE – you’ve got to NOT make the biggest mistake most people make.

THE ZONE is not a state!

THE ZONE is THE TOTAL ABSENCE OF STATE!

If that makes you curious, read this article too, and I double dog dare you to apply it!   Whooo yah!

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Mr Twenty Twenty

I just wrote a great post in the forums – click here - about doing 10,000 trance inductions, and how that changed everything about how I do hypnosis and nlp.

Go read it!

Because here is a HUGE KEY.  If you are waiting to get good, you will NEVER BECOME GREAT.

“Most “hypnotists” do about 100 inductions a year.   It would take them 100 years to learn what I learned in 3 years, because I did not limit my playing field.”

Instead, I chose to master and apply the principles of trance induction and covert hypnosis CONSTANTLY to EVERYTHING I did.

That’s why I am both a Renegade and a Leader, when it comes to hypnosis, trance, “nlp”, and how to stop living a life that is totally not working out for you.

Go read the article, and join in the discussion.

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James started connecting naturally.

James started connecting easily.

James started connecting enjoyably.

8 weeks earlier, James emailed me.  He was pissed.  He was angry.  He felt all alone, that he had been gyped, he felt that nobody on earth understood him.

Except for me.

He had been reading articles here, on NLP LIVE for a few weeks.  The night he emailed me he had been reading for over an hour.    It was then, that it hit him.

“I don’t need more techniques methods or secrets, what I need is someone like you to, just do what you do.  I’ve heard you on your radio show, I’ve listened to your recordings, I’ve heard how you so naturally connect with people.  I need you to connect with me and help me get what I’ve been missing.  Would you please help me?  I need to connect with people, and I don’t want to keep trying to use rapport methods.”

So we did a total of 10 weeks of coaching.  Helping him “do what I do”.

Our calls were fun, challenging, and very unique.  They were NOT about rapport techniques or rapport methods.

We did 10 weeks of rapport coaching, helping him notice when he did just 2 things.

1. Notice when he was losing peoples interest and attention.
2. Notice when he left them behind, and went into his own little trance world.

I trained him how to NOTICE and USE ATTENTION, because:

All people want is attention – from you.

If you don’t know how to NOTICE BOTH your attention and their attention, then you are probably one of those people who are frustrated, and wondering why you still can’t connect with people.

Let me know if this makes sense, and if you want in.

Email:  2020@exhostage.com

James, I thank you for asking me to do this kind of work with you.  I thank you for having the guts to reach out, to keep showing up for our calls, and for investing in you.

I want you to think about these questions, just for a moment, then I want to share something very powerful with you.

“Can Hypnosis cure schizophrenia?”

“Can Wild Violets cure cirrosis of the liver?”

“Can NLP cure ADHD?”

“Can METHOD XYZ cure anxiety?”

QUIZ QUESTION: All those questions have one very damaging and DEADLY ELEMENT in common.  Do you know what it is?

ANSWER: They all come from the perspective of TREATING DISEASE.

The Native American healers I trained with, taught me about HEALING PEOPLE.  We never focused on TREATING DISEASE.

Note:  There is a HUGE DIFFERENCE between the two.  In one system, A STATIC DISEASE is in the center of all treatment, and in all thinking about the treatment.  In this ancient way, A DYNAMIC HUMAN -  YOU is in the center of consciousness.  If you are beginning to get how VITAL this is, and how powerful, then you DO have a pulse!

This is why on my 7 Secrets of Plant Medicine CD I share EXACTLY what I learned from my mentors and elders.

“You never heal diseases.  You help people heal themselves.”

I learned from my elders and mentors, Seven Steps that are necessary to shift from DISEASE thinking, to PEOPLE THINKING.

Get this through your head, and if you are a PRACTITIONER, your SKILLS AND PRACTICE will transform.

Get this through your head, and if you are A HUMAN WHO NEEDS HEALING, you will be transformed.

Real healing modalities, don’t ever treat diseases, they help people heal.

So, can hypnosis cure schizophrenia?  Who cares.

Hypnosis helps people heal!

Plants help people heal!

Seeing through Native Eyes helps people heal!

Help yourself to heal.  Learn how to REALLY focus on you, focus on your world, focus on what you are being given every day, every moment.

Mr Twenty Twenty

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