NLP Live

I got this in the email 2 weeks ago.  You are gonna be surprised at how it all worked out.

“Please help me, before I got promoted to management, I imagined being a manage a manager would solve all my problems at work. I imagined that I could get the employees to obey orders like robots. Now I am trying to use anchoring, state elicitation, rapport and my other skills to get them to form an image of me being a good leader in their minds.  I am finding all my new responsibilities very stressful and I don’t know what to do.”

Here’s the problem.  Jimmy got his promotion, because he used his “NLP SKILLS” to make it impossible for the boss to resist giving him the promotion.    In other words, Jimmy engineered his way into a job that he can’t handle, and doesn’t deserve.

He should have spent his time using some gold old fashioned NLP to CHANGE HIS LIFE, instead of using it to manipulate others.

Jimmy, here’s the deal.   Now you can choose to develop the strategies – the inner game -  you need to succeed.  Now you can choose to develop the communication skills you need to be a good boss, maybe even the best boss ever.   Now you can choose to PRODUCE CHANGE within yourself, instead of MODIFYING OTHER PEOPLES THINKING, to get your own way.

Note:  I actually got in Jimmy’s face last Wednesday, on his first coaching call.  He needed that, he wanted that. He knew, that it was time for him to use HIS NLP to grow, so he could really give to the company, and give to the people in his life, instead of tricking them so he could take.

Note:  Jimmy just had his second coaching call with me today.  He’s put up over $2,000 of NLP crap on Ebay, to pay for a 10 week intense coaching training with me. Why?  Because at some point, we all get to the point where growing and growing up makes sense.

“Jimmy came to me he says because he needed coaching and mentoring that would challenge him, and help him get results.   That’s the same reasons why I went to the elders and the mentors I trained with, and it makes  all the differrence.”

So why do people hate NLP and NLPERS?  Could it be that most of the attention NLP gets now days is from folks who want to use it like Jimmy did?

Think about it.

Look, 2010 is right around the corner.  What are you going to do differently?

It’s time!

Mr Twenty Twenty

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